125 Husband Hurting Wife Quotes That You Can Relate To Painful And Telling

Husband Hurting Wife Quotes: Do you feel mistreated by your husband? If so, then this collection of husband hurting wife quotes will help you find some solace. You searched for quotes about a spouse harming his wife, didn’t you? We have compiled the most moving and heartfelt selection of husband hurting wife quotes, sayings, captions, messages, and paragraphs (with images and photographs) that we could find in the hopes that they would connect to your anguish if you are going through a difficult time in your marriage.

The institution of marriage presents difficulties, whichever way one looks at it. In spite of the fact that you love your spouse more than anything in the world, it is inevitable that you will have arguments with him during the course of your marriage.

However, there are occasions when he will say or do things that are really damaging to you. Your husband’s attitude toward you reveals that he takes you for granted when he ignores or neglects you. Over time, his disregard for you may cause you to feel numb and shattered within.

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Broken Heart Husband Hurting Wife Quotes

1. “A man will admit his wrongs and try to fix them. A boy will find excuses and constantly blame you for why he’s hurting you.”

2. “Hurting someone who really loves you is as easy as throwing a stone in a lake; But you never really know how deep the stone goes once it hits the water. Take care to remember that each stone thrown could be a ripple of hurt or a tidal wave of devastation.”

3. “Someday you’re gonna look back on this moment of your life as such a sweet time of grieving. You’ll see that you were in mourning, and your heart was broken, but your life was changing.” —Elizabeth Gilbert

Husband Hurting Wife Quotes That You Can Relate To Painful And Telling

4. “I still believed he’d love me again somehow, love me that intense, thick way he did, the way that made everything good.” ― Gillian Flynn

5. “Marriage is not 50-50; divorce is 50-50. Marriage has to be 100-100. It isn’t dividing everything in half, but giving everything you’ve got!”

6. “A man will admit his wrongs and try to fix them. A boy will find excuses and constantly blame you for why he’s hurting you.” ― Unknown

7. “One day, I hope you look back at what we had, and regret every single thing you did to let it end.”

8. “The worst feeling in the world is being hurt by someone you love.”

9. “Every heart has a pain. Only the way of expressing it is different. Fools hide it in eyes, while the brilliant hide it in their smile.”

10. “Relationships are like glass. Sometimes it’s better to leave them broken than try to hurt yourself putting it back together.” ― D. Love

11. “Never neglect the people who are most important to you simply because you think they will always be there. Because one morning you might wake up and realize you lost the moon while counting the stars.”

12. “Being single is much better than being lied to, cheated on, and disrespected.”

13. “Distance doesn’t separate people. Silence does.” ― Jeff Hood

14. “I realized today that I have stopped living life. I’m literally just trying to get to the next day, just living in the thought of tomorrow. I’m not living, I’m waiting. And the trouble is, I don’t know what I’m exactly waiting for, I’m kind of scared for what it might be.”

15. “I wish I could go back to the day I met you and just walk away. Honestly, it would’ve saved me so much hurt and pain.”

16. “Cry. Forgive. Learn. Move on. Let your tears water the seeds of your future happiness.” — Steve Maraboli

17. “Holding on to a man who doesn’t want you just shows that you have absolutely no self worth. When someone walks away and doesn’t look back, show yourself just a little bit of self respect and move on.”

18. “Be careful what you say. You can say something hurtful in ten seconds, but ten years later, the wounds are still there.” ― Joel Osteen

19. “It hurts the most when the person who made you feel so special yesterday makes you feel so unwanted today.”

20. “It is not a lack of love, but a lack of friendship that makes unhappy marriages.” ― Friedrich Nietzsche

21. “I don’t think he knows how much he hurts me sometimes…”

22. “After marriage, a woman’s sight becomes so keen that she can see right through her husband without looking at him, and a man’s so dull that he can look right through his wife without seeing her.” ― Helen Rowland

23. “Really, what is more important in a man’s life than his wife? His work? His kids? His hobbies? If you’re not number one in your husband’s life, your soul will begin to wither and fade away.” ― Barrie Davenport

24. “While it is better to be loved than hated, it is also far better to be hated than ignored.” ― Viet Thanh Nguyen

25. “Relationships are like glass. Sometimes it’s better to leave them broken than try to hurt yourself putting it back together.” ― Unknown

26. “Love grows where trust is laid, and love dies where trust is betrayed.”

27. “Its good to be able to deal with it [anger] somehow other than drinking, fighting, crashing cars, hitting your kid, your wife, your husband, your whatever. Paintbrushes, pens, movie cameras, guitars, microphones, typewriters these are good things. Weights. These are positive ways, good ways to deal with anger, frustration, alienation, rage. Cause all the other ways do nothing but hurt people.” ― Henry Rollins

28. “You cannot really get married by mistake. You can only marry the wrong p8rson.” ― Mokokoma Mokhonoana

29. “If your partner is hurting and you don’t know how to fix it, then praying is the strongest solution that guarantees result!”

30. “I don’t want to be married just to be married. I can’t think of anything lonelier than spending the rest of my life with someone I can’t talk to, or worse, someone I can’t be silent with.” ―Mary Ann Shaffer

31. As time goes on, your husband’s neglect will take its toll on your psyche and your heart. Every time you try to connect, and he brushes you aside, it feels like a blow.

32. “If you’re turning yourself into a pretzel to win his love and attention, you’ve already diminished yourself. You’ve already lost whatever love he said he had for you.” ― Unknown

33. “Don’t spend too much time beating on a wall, hoping it will transform into a door.” ―Dr. Laura Schlessinger

34. “I think a bad husband is far worse than no husband.” ― Margaret Cavendish

35. “Ignoring your partner’s needs and expecting a happy relationship, is like ignoring your plants needing water and still expecting a beautiful garden.”

36. “The human heart is the only thing whose worth increases the more it is broken.” —Shakieb Orgunwall

37. “When people hurt you over and over, think of them like sandpaper. They may scratch and hurt you a bit, but in the end, you end up polished and they end up useless.”

38. ”Loneliness is not lack of company, loneliness is lack of purpose.” ― Guillermo Maldonado

39. “Some men are tempted to violate secrecy from the uneasiness secrecy gives them, and others, merely to impress you with the extent of their confidence.” ― Norm MacDonald

40. “The loneliest thing in the world is lying awake beside someone asleep.” ― Rebecca Makkai

41. “It hurts like hell when your husband doesn’t treat you right. What hurts even more is when they act like they don’t even know what they have been doing.”

42. “You hurt me more than what I deserve because I loved you more than what you deserve.”

43. “Happiness is the china shop; love is the bull.” —H. L. Mencken

44. “The pain of yesterday is the strength of today.” ― Paulo Coelho

45. “When someone betrays you, it is a reflection of their character, not yours.”

46. “The difference between privacy and secrecy is this; One is used to protect, the other is used to hide.” ― Renee Slansky

47. “When you hurt the one you love, you are bound to hurt yourself.” ― Unknown

48. “Don’t break a bird’s wings and then tell it to fly. Don’t break a heart and tell it to love. Don’t break a soul and then tell it to be happy. Don’t see the worst in a person and expect them to see the best in you. Don’t judge people and expect them to stand by your side. Don’t play with fire and expect to stay perfectly safe. Life is about giving and taking. You cannot expect to give bad and receive good. You cannot expect to give good and receive bad.” ― Najwa Zebian

49. “Divorce isn’t such a tragedy. A tragedy’s staying in an unhappy marriage, teaching your children the wrong things about love. Nobody ever died of divorce.” ― Jennifer Weiner

50. You are left with a fractured heart that soon may be broken beyond repair. If only he’d get the message before it’s too late.

51. “Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option.” ― Marc and Angel

52. “Sorry is not enough. Sometimes you actually have to change.” ― Unknown

53. “If you spend your time hoping someone will suffer the consequences for what they did to your heart, then you’re allowing them to hurt you a second time in your mind.” ―Shannon L. Alder

54. “Dear Lord, my hearts hurts for wives who feel lonely in marriage. I remember what it feels like to be lonely in marriage and I had no clue how to fix things with my husband. I appreciate you pursuing us and helping us resolve in our marriage. I pray the same thing happens for these lonely wives. May your Holy Spirit pursue the and guide them. Not just them, but their husbands as well. May you show them how marriage can be enjoyable and that companionship can exists. I pray healing and restoration for these marriages in Jesus’ name Amen!”

55. “Most people cheat because they’re paying more attention to what they’re missing rather than what they have.”

56. “The problem is you still don’t think that you did anything to hurt me.”

57. “Many marriages would be better if the husband and the wife clearly understood that they are on the same side.” ― Zig Ziglar

58. “A man should be like a child with his wife, but if she needs him, he should act like a man.” ― Umar Ibn Al-Khattab

59. “Whenever a husband battles within himself, it’s his wife who feels the force of the war.”

60. “What kills love? Only this: neglect.” ― Jeanette Winterson

61. “A wife who is devoted to the integrity and honor of herself will not entertain emotional and other inappropriateness from her husband.”

62. “You’re ignoring me so loud that it’s deafening. This silence is so deep that it’s echoing.” ― Anna Jae

63. “Sometimes I get real lonely sleeping with you.” ―Haruki Murakami

64. “The shattering of a heart being broken is the loudest quiet ever.” ― Carroll Bryant

65. “There comes a time in your life when you have to choose to turn the page, write another book or simply close it.” ― Shannon L. Alder

66. “If they loved you in the ways, they claim to love you. They wouldn’t hurt you in the ways they deny they hurt you.”

67. “I’m sad, hurt, angry, mad, and disappointed, but you know what? I’ll put on a smile and move on, it will hurt, but I will survive.”

68. “The demise of marriages begins with a growing absence of responsive intimate interactions. The conflict comes later.” ―Sue Johnson

69. “Never make a good woman hurt too many times… At some point the pain you cause her will permanently damage her and she will no longer see a future with you or look at you the same.”

70. “There is nothing lonelier than being in a marriage feeling unseen by your husband. You feel like a ghost in your own home.” ― Barrie Davenport

71. “Your spouse is not a possession you attain, but a friend in which you trust and adore.” ― Robert Vanleeuwen

72. “There is never a reason to fight about money. money can always be made but hurtful words can never be taken back.”

73. “Hearts can break. Yes, hearts can break. Sometimes I think it would be better if we died when they did, but we don’t. ” ― Stephen King

74. “If you succeed in cheating someone, don’t think that the person is a fool. Realize that the person trusted you much more than you deserved.”

75. “There are many ways of breaking a heart. Stories were full of hearts broken by love, but what really broke a heart was taking away its dream—whatever that dream might be.” ― Pearl S. Buck

76. “Having your heart broken by the one you love the most can be like a thousand paper cuts or one massive and decisive blow. Either way, the pain is profound.” ― Barrie Davenport

77. “I am good enough person to forgive you. But not stupid enough to trust you again.”

78. “You will search for me in another person… I promise… And you will never find me.”

79. “No matter how hard your heart is broken, the world doesn’t stop for your grief.” —Faraaz Kazi

80. “Nothing hurts more than being ignored, replaced, forgotten, or lied to.”

81. “It would be too easy to say that I feel invisible. Instead, I feel painfully visible, and entirely ignored.” ― David Levithan

82. “Neglect cannot exist with love in a marriage. If you’re neglected and taken for granted, you’re not loved.” ― Barrie Davenport

83. “Nothing hurts more than being disappointed by the one person who you thought would never hurt you.”

84. “Spend your time on those that love you unconditionally. Don’t waste it on those that only love you when the conditions are right for them.”

85. “Something my dad says…He says you end up marrying the one you don’t understand. Then you spend the rest of your life trying.” ― Fredrik Backman

86. “I have learned, being alone is not the same as loneliness. And there is nothing quite as lonely as a lonely marriage.” ― Sara Stansberry

87. “A good marriage is supposed to be one where each spouse secretly thinks he or she got the better deal.” ― Anne Lamott

88. “You husbands in the same way, live with your wives in an understanding way, as with someone weaker, since she is a woman; and show her honor as a fellow heir of the grace of life, so that your prayers will not be hindered.” ― 1 Peter 3:7 (Bible Verses)

89. “It’s amazing how someone can break your heart and you can still love them with all the little pieces.” ― Ella Harper

90. “Most men do not have the balls to help their women to not need them.” ― Mokokoma Mokhonoana

91. “Never make the one you love feel alone, especially when you’re right there” ― Unknown

92. “Pain is inevitable. Suffering is optional.” —Haruki Murakami

93. “When a girl gives up, it’s not because she doesn’t love you, but because she’s tired of getting hurt and feels like you’ll never care.”

94. “A real man can’t stand seeing his woman hurt. He’s careful with his decisions and actions, so he never has to be responsible for her pain.”

95. “Stay away from people who can’t take responsibility for their actions and who make you feel bad for being angry at them when they do you wrong.”

96. “Ignoring is a passive-aggressive way of dealing with a chronic relationship problem. When your husband ignores you, no matter if it’s all the time or just after arguments, he is trying to avoid and run away from a problem instead of dealing with it and solving it.” ― Lisa Penn

97. “Do not look for healing at the feet of those who broke you.” ― Rupi Kaur

98. “I used to think that the worst feeling in life was to end up all alone. It’s not. The worst thing in life is ending up with people who make you feel all alone.” ― Robin Williams

99. “Indifference and neglect often do much more damage than outright dislike.” ― J.K. Rowling

100. “Betrayal was what I felt, my heart broken not just by a guy I was i love with, but also by, as I once believed, a true friend.” ― Danka V.

101. “The husband who doesn’t tell his wife everything probably reasons that what she doesn’t know won’t hurt him.” ― Leo J. Burke

102. “A girl becomes a wife with her eyes wide open. She knows that those sweetest words, I take thee to be my wedded husband, really mean, I promise thee to cook three meals a day for 60 years; thee will I clean up after; thee will I talk to even when thou art not listening; thee will I worry about, cry over and take all manner of hurts from.” ― Alan Beck

103. “When someone accuses you of doing something you’re not doing, it’s usually because they’re the ones doing it.”

104. “Even the most intense feelings cease when neglected and taken for granted.” ― Anupama Garg

105. “A real man never hurts a woman. Be very careful when you make a woman cry, because God counts her tears. The woman came out of a man’s rib, not from his feet to be walked on, and not from his head to be superior, but from his side to be equal. Under the arm to be protected, and next to the heart to be loved.”

106. “If a man, who says he loves you, won’t tell you the details of a private conversation between him and another woman you can be sure he is not protecting your heart. He is protecting himself and the women he has feelings for. Wise women simply see things as they are, not as their low self-esteem allows.” ― Shannon L. Alder

107. “When you date a married man and he leaves his wife… you enter a world of lies. He cheated on his wife and he will cheat on you!”

108. “I was always just a supporting cast member in my husband’s life. His attention turned to me only when I was attending to him.” ― Unknown

109. “I will never regret you or say I wish I’d never met you. Because once upon a time you were exactly what I needed.” —Bob Marley

110. “A husband should remember it is only natural and healthy for your relationship to have disagreements in a marriage. What is important is how you conduct yourself in these disagreements, you can disagree with your wife without being disrespectful and hurtful. Do not say things that are designed to hurt your wife’s feelings. You love your wife and “love is kind”.”

111. “If I treated you the way you treat me, you would hate me.” ― Unknown

112. “If your husband neglects you, he doesn’t deserve you.” ― Unknown

113. “A broken heart is the worst. Nobody can see it, but it hurts every time you breathe.” ― Unknown

114. “My husband neglects me and thinks I’ll always be here waiting. He has no idea the storm that is about to break over his life. I’m tired of begging him to make me a priority.”

115. “I hate not being happy. I hate the fact that my own husband doesn’t even care about my feelings of loneliness. I thought marriage was suppose to be comforting and fun. I just feel trapped.”

116. “I think I owe you the time you wasted in ignoring me.” ― Nitya Prakash

117. “Nothing hurts more than realizing he meant everything to you and you meant nothing to him.” ― Unknown

118. “Being ignored by the person you love is hard. But what hurts the most is how they make it look so easy.”

119. “Pleasure of love lasts but a moment. Pain of love lasts a lifetime.” ― Bette Davis

120. “What’s worse than being hated is being ignored, because it’s like you don’t exist at all and your presence is nothing.” ― Anurag Prakash Ray

121. “You married him because he promised to love, honor, and cherish you. When all of those promises are broken time and again, you are left with a broken heart.” ― Barrie Davenport

122. “Silence is a woman’s loudest cry. You can always tell she’s really hurt when she starts ignoring you.” ― Unknown

123. “Nothing hurts more than realizing he meant everything to you and you meant nothing to him.”

124. “It’s weird, marriage. It’s like this license that gives a person the legal right to control their spouse / their ‘other half.” ― Jess C. Scott


It’s hard to put into words how much it aches when your husband doesn’t appreciate and adore you. It’s just one of those things. Because of this, we have compiled 63 quotations under the heading “unhappy marriage, nasty spouse.” It’s possible that reading these statements could help legitimize the sentiments you’ve been having and give you the strength to take action.

If you are able to relate to the sentiments expressed in these sad quotes about husbands hurting their wives in marriage, please feel free to share these words of wisdom with friends and family on social networking sites such as Pinterest, Facebook, Tumblr, Instagram, and Twitter, and let them know how much it hurts.

A marriage between a man and a woman is a unique and distinctive bond that must be built on a strong foundation of love, trust, support, and comprehension. It is really painful whenever your boyfriend cheats on you or betrays you in any way. There is nothing more depressing than being neglected or being in a marriage that is strained.

When a husband harms his wife either emotionally, physically, or by harsh words, the woman is forced to endure a great deal of anguish, despair, and emptiness. You should know that there are a lot of other women going through the same thing as you are and that you are not alone in the fight. These comments about husbands harming their wives may be related to your situation, and you should also know that.

If some of the scenarios and feelings described in these quotations ring true for you, my hope is that they will also motivate you to take action to address the problems in your marriage and to work on improving your relationship. Or, if things don’t seem like they can be fixed, perhaps reading these heartfelt words about husbands and wives can give you the strength to go on and find someone who will treat you with more love and respect.

You believed that the only thing that could hurt you more than being neglected was being ignored, but now he is completely ignoring you. It’s almost as if you’ve earned the status of persona non grata in the eyes of the person who should love you the most. You and he are just two ships that happen to be going in opposite directions at the same time, and no matter how hard you try to get his attention, he is just not interested.

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